Creating structure in a family business
A father-son company seeks advice on formalizing roles and building a sustainable structure for growth.
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James, Miami, Fl.
I am part of a small family-owned drywall contracting company, with previous experience in estimating potential projects. My father is the other half of the company, as he has experience in field work. We have experienced some success already, but I’m looking to create structure in our company and lack the experience to do so. What are the steps that I need to take to create clear-cut roles that I should follow? Do my dad and I need to assign responsibilities that we each stick to?
By Emily Maltby, CNNMoney.com staff writer
Defining roles is always difficult, and is even more challenging when the other party is a family member. Your general goal should be to establish clear spheres of responsibility – and then stay out of each other’s area of expertise.
Gary Naumann, lecturer in entrepreneurship at the Carey School of Business Arizona State University, recommends sorting the critical tasks of the company into functional areas, such as operations, sales, office administration, finance and accounting. Then decide which of you is best suited to overseeing each area.
He suggests dividing and conquering so that you don’t double-dip on every little issue. “In a small but growing business, there is no time for you to confer with each other about all the details of your respective areas of responsibility,” he says. “My experience is that most of what each of you does in those areas should be done independently, thereby reserving the discussion time for those critical issues that require consultation.”
This will become even more essential as you add employees – those who work for you will want to know what is going on and who to consult about various tasks. One tactic Naumann suggests is a “Who Does What” outline that you can hand out to your associates.
“This should not be limited to just the two of you,” he says. “Rather, it should encompass all the key areas of your company so you are able to comfortably delegate certain tasks and everyone in the company knows who the ‘go to’ person is.” This will also help you and your father concentrate on your key tasks.
Of course, with the division of responsibilities will come the challenge of remuneration. Formalizing pay arrangements is a key part of creating an official business structure.
“Compensation of family members is much less likely to be based on any objective criteria,” says Allen Fishman, author of 9 Elements of Family Business Success. “The sooner the family business leader takes control of creating objective standards for dealing with compensation issues, the more likely it is the businesses will survive and flourish into succeeding generations of leadership.”
Fishman recommends putting your policy into writing. “A clearly stated compensation policy often prevents conflict and is the best way to break through the emotional barriers that commonly come into play when discussing compensation,” he says in his book. “It would be best if the family business developed its employee compensation policies to approximate the industry levels to some degree. It’s not at all uncommon for family businesses to employ family members for more than the going rate.”
If your company doesn’t pay salaries and instead splits profits, compensation is generally based on ownership stakes. “From a tax standpoint, you can’t start a business without a document that shows ownership,” Fishman says. “If, for instance, one person runs a warehouse while another runs office operations, the payouts may be the same if they each own 50% of the company – even though their skill sets have different market value.”
Fishman warns that in a very small business, such as a father-son operation, the issue of formalizing ownership stakes often isn’t discussed unless there is a problem – when it’s too late.
“Don’t wait for a feeling of unfairness to arise before you sit down and talk,” he recommends. “Documenting your visions for the company and how it should be run will help to ensure the company doesn’t break apart in the future.”
We have a family-run maid service in new york and depend on *written* job descriptions to ensure that family and friendship do not interfere with what the business and the customers need. Written job descriptions take a lot of the guesswork out of accountability and job performance reviews.
We run a Maid Service in New York and have found that having clear cut (written) job descriptions helps employees be accountable and professional even if they are friends or family. Written job descriptions are essential for performance reviews as well.
I think it is wonderful that you are doing business with your family. For over 12 years my wife and I have worked together with small business owners and actually teach a program at SMU here in Dallas.
Here are my top 5 things to remember when you go into business together with a family member or spouse.
1. Site down and get on paper a clear vison of the company. Your vision and your dads. Include bother personal and professional goals related to the business. Meaning how will you or the company help you meet the goal.
2. Write down what you love to do in the business and what you do not. One huge mistake we see is people dividing up the the company based on experience. Sounds great on paper, but if you hate it even though you are good at it…in the end it will hurt the business and your relationship.
3. Find a third party right away that is not family that will be your designated mediator on any business isssue. It avoids things like adding a brother, sister, mom to your group and the hated why do I bother mom always agrees with you!
4. Have fun… Sounds Simple right…NOT. do something fun in the business at least once a week. ANYTHING. My wife and I go to a long lunch every now and then, to a movie, something together during the week. We usually leave with better business ideas and a better sense of connection since we WORK most of the time.
5. Decide on how much money you need to live the life you wanted and how much to put back in the company. Be equal owners and take a equal share if you are partners. That helps get rid of the you get paid to much not enough.
I wish you all success and want you to know that you can have a very successful business with family while spending quality time with the ones you love. If there is every a time when your visions of the company don’t match, a buyout of the other member, or sale of the company is the best option to maintain a tight family relationship.
Mark
COO
http://www.rapidsuccesspartners.com
I’m in business with my mom as well. So I understand your plight! A program that REALLY helped my out as a business owner is http://www.fasttrac.org/
It’s an actual course you take that last about 3 months once a week on Fridays. So it fits your schedule. IT REALLY was a life saver for our business. Because as a small business owner…you really don’t know…what you don’t know!
We run
Atlanta House Cleaning out of Atlanta Georgia. A sound business model is critical to success. We have found that written policies and procedures with no ambiguity is the way to go. In addition, having some teeth behind them, for example if the employee who made the mistake shares in the discount that the customer received, it tends to make them learn very quick and thur reduce complaints.
One suggestion is to immediately get the basics of your business automated. Many father-son teams experience the collision of being a handyman versus being technology savvy. Give http://www.MyOnlineToolbox.com a try to have all your scheduling, estimates, work orders and invoices online.
the best book I ever read on this subject was “the e-myth revisited”. It is low cost, and it details the solution to this and so much more in a clear, concise fashion.
Every Family’s Business — a must read for everyone involved in a family business
http://www.EveryFamilysBusiness.com
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I believe creating goals does achieves many important roads to sucess. You and your dad need to make a strategy both marketing and business and be on your track to suceess.